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Tuesday, December 18, 2012

Who Do You Curse? Why Do You Curse Them?

Yesterday I found this on my computer looking for a file to send to someone. When I opened it up I felt like I should share it. I am acting on that emotion. I hope it helps someone somewhere. The knowledge helped me. I originally posted this all over face book funny enough. I hadn't found the format I wanted to use yet. It needed to be without spam adds or income ties. If you've read it before sorry for the repeat!

I have a lot to get out of my head today before I get to my daily tasks. I listen to moody radio A LOT! I love it. I never fail to gain insight from whatever show I am lucky enough to get to hear. Hopefully you read my post yesterday because this just builds off of it.

Do YOU Curse? Who do you curse?

So the other day on Moody . . . not even sure who was on. I came in on the middle of a show and only caught this little bit. A lady was telling a story about her child who she was having issues with. She had prayed . . . she had sought help, all to no avail. So here she was once again at another establishment seeking help. She explained all the issues she was having with the counselor and she was asked, “How long have you been cursing your child?” When I heard that I caught my breath. Can any of us say we have not cursed someone? She was not doing this with a vicious heart. She desired it to stop. She was only explaining what was going on with her relationship with her daughter.

She said she was taken aback. Heck! I was taken aback. I felt like I had been punched in the stomach. I myself could hardly breathe. I had a child that I was struggling with. In this light I could not ignore the truth. I cursed him almost daily. I began to tear up. What mother wishes to curse her child? I had never viewed it through that lens before. Whoever you have struggles with, I urge you, STOP cursing them.

This morning upon waking the first thoughts I heard in my head were, “What you put out into this world via your thoughts is what will come back to you. The return is NOT instant. The question is what do you want more of? No one seeks misery. We all long to be happy. If you want to be happy . . . well . . . then be happy. Who is stopping you? No one can stop you but yourself. Recognize when you slide into negativity. Stop just for a second. Breathe. Close your eyes and envision yourself happy. Where are you? What are you doing? If you can’t envision where you want to be then pull on the last memory you have that made you feel good. Maintain a positive outlook in all ways always.”

WE ALL Have BAD days. It is so easy to slip into negative sentences...even easier to just have negative thoughts that you don’t share. When you are complaining about what someone does they seem to do more of it. It is the Law of Attraction.

Do you have someone you are struggling with? Here is my suggestion. Pray for them. Pray for yourself. Stop cursing them. When you catch yourself getting ready to say something negative about that person, change your thought process. Associate one good thing with them and when they come to mind reflect on the one good thing. Make that your focus. Chant it if you have to. Go forth and spread goodness and may it multiply upon itself. We are in the midst of a battle. Who wants to be on the winning side?!

May your day be full of blessings!
Wendy, Mom of Many

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